It's so sad when you realize how people view marriages now, my colleague believes in sex before marriage and this is what she had to say

"Before you buy a car, you have to test it out right?So before you commit yourself to marriage have to see his ****** what if it's not 'up to standard'?"

Beebs*rolls her eyes and thinks to herself...
"It's that ALL you care about in the guy you want to marry?"

I mean at the end of the day, it's that all you look for in your possible husband?So even if he treats you very well, has a successful career, his mom loves you very much, but he isn't up to size you wouldn't marry him?all because he didn't measure up...so sad so so sad!

so much for the vows

For better or for worse...

I like what Irwin said to this test drive theory

"Unless you're an experience driver you wouldn't know what problems to look for in a car when you test drive it. So unless you've been married you wouldn't know what problems to look out for in a marriage."

But I must agree with my friend, people are not cars. Marriages are not cars.